Workplace Social Networking: How Familiar Are You?

On social occasions, it is easier to be confused by the close relationship between many "friends".

Someone just came to tell you about this. This is my buddy, fund company. He will ask for information after frying stock. Later, the "news" person will ask you: what did the man who introduced me just now do?

For social networking experts, these are all frequent events within the normal range.

For real people, these incidents are not only hypocritical, but can also bring emotional harm.

A private party organizer told me something about their members who were sick in the small circle.

The organizers only looked for 6 recent members, but was rejected by one of them because he thought they were not so familiar.

This is very much like a pair of lovers who invest deeply in different degrees. When one party has found a lucky day for a banquet on the lunar calendar, the other party is still broadcasting everywhere: I am still single, and introduce it to me soon.

The two sides are mutual.

The dislocation is not surprising.

Many in big cities

It is easy for people to breed this illusion.

For example, some peers, because of the relationship between business gatherings, can communicate up to several times a month, far more than the most iron students and their closest relatives.

But are they familiar? When you get upset at home, you will never go to these familiar peers.

There are also people who are confused by the warm atmosphere of social occasions to talk to "very familiar" colleagues. The last stage is the whole industry's upstream and downstream, which is circulating his gossip entertainment.

The most unreliable

It is because of professional needs.

Most of the people in high positions are surrounded by a pile of acquaintances.

On birthday, you will receive a bunch of gifts from acquaintances. When you are sick, a bunch of acquaintances come to visit.

After leaving this position, especially after leaving the industry, all of these acquaintances are gone.

After half a year, you can't even remember who this person is, though he gave more gifts than your lover.

I know someone who has been hurt after leaving.

He was in a low ebb after leaving office, and some of his acquaintances came out to chat, but none of them could come out.

This is actually unrequited love.

You think you are very familiar friends. They only think they are professional needs.

How familiar are you? This requires bold assumptions and careful proof.

Do not rely on ripe sell ripe, just ask for, let a person feel disgusted; also can not flinch, in situ wait and see.

The relationship between friends is becoming more and more familiar in this kind of business.